Sunday 12 February 2012

Saint Valentine, and all that goes with him...

An over-priced but thoroughly lovely tradition looms.  It makes me wonder where it came from - all these tacky cards and flowers.  And what should I do to celebrate?

February is approaching spring, and is historically associated with love and fertility. The BBC say 'It encompasses the sacred marriage of Zeus and Hera in Ancient Athens and the Ancient Roman festival of Lupercus, the god of fertility.
The priests of Lupercus would perform a traditional purification ritual, slaughtering goats to the god, and after consuming wine, they would run through the streets of Rome holding aloft the skins of the goats touching anyone they met. The occasion compelled floods of young women to the streets in the belief that being touched would improve their chances of conceiving and bring forth easy childbirth.'

Well, I'm not sure I fancy slaughtering any goats this week, and in any case, I'm probably done with fertility.  So I guess that one's out.

The name "Valentine", derives from valens (worthy, strong, powerful); which is not what you'd think.  It's not about love.  Although it is about religious Saints - any one of three it seems:

  • A priest in Rome,




  • A bishop of Interamna (modern Terni), or




  • A martyr in the Roman province of Africa



  • Courtesy of Wikipedia - use with caution...


    But the general theme seems to be a show of affection between lovers, or those that wish to become lovers.


    And as it seems to be a major part in all our lives - finding someone to share time with, then I suppose it should be very important to us.  Certainly, even the staunch Atheists celebrate it (on occasion).  So it has transcended religion into a much wider western tradition.

    It's not really about fertility anymore.  It's about making life better.  It might be about physical pleasure too.  Is it just an excuse?  Should we ever need an excuse to tell someone how we feel? 

    And what is this stuff about sending anonymous cards and gifts.  Surely we would want the person to know.  I never did get that - even when, as a teenager, it was all very important.

    After all that - I suppose I could celebrate with something that means much to me.  Love words, me.  Love- words make my world work.  So here are some.  Courtesy of Mr Bob Dylan, and covered wonderfully by Adele.

    When the rain
    Is blowing in your face
    And the whole world
    Is on your case
    I could offer you
    A warm embrace
    To make you feel my love

    When the evening shadows
    And the stars appear
    And there is no - one there
    To dry your tears
    I could hold you
    For a million years
    To make you feel my love

    I know you
    Haven't made
    Your mind up yet
    But I would never
    Do you wrong
    I've known it
    From the moment
    That we met
    No doubt in my mind
    Where you belong

    I'd go hungry
    I'd go black and blue
    I'd go crawling
    Down the avenue
    Know there's nothing
    That I wouldn't do
    To make you feel my love

    The storms are raging
    On the rolling sea
    And on the highway of regret
    The winds of change
    Are blowing wild and free
    You ain't seen nothing
    Like me yet

    I could make you happy
    Make your dreams come true
    Nothing that I wouldn't do
    Go to the ends
    Of the Earth for you
    To make you feel my love,